Anything bad that happens you can move on in life.

I strongley disagree with this, when your elderly when something happens it can effect, its not if you can help it or if you can not help it, YOU CANT HELP IT!! Okay for example, Lets say a child was rapped by an asian, an american child, for the rest of her life she wont invole herself with asian men. Or if and elderly woman loses a child she may feel hopeless. What im trying to say is somethings in life that happen if there horrific enough you cannot move on. There will always be a tear.. ajust ment of somesort that will effect your life. Maybe simple things you can move on from. Somethings you cant. Some peoples mentality isnt as strong as others.